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*Taking your leave *
If there's a farewell party and you are asked to say a few words you can probably get away with a short "thank you" speech. You should also thank any helpful colleagues personally, too.
No doubt the party will gather momentum, but don't lose sight of the fact you are still "at work". This is a great opportunity to cement friendships and hone business relationships so don't blow it by getting drunk and being indiscreet.
It might sound a bit calculating, but you should think about who might be able to help your future career. Thank your boss for the opportunities they gave you - whether it's true or not – and let other managers and key staff around the company know that you valued working for the company.
Whatever you do, don't start bragging about where you are going or how much you are going to earn – try to think of the feelings of those you are leaving behind. In fact, never give anyone an excuse to resent you if you can help it.
Last but not least, send a short email to your colleagues with contact details so that they can get hold of you if they want to.
*Help your successor*
Don't be tempted to leave your successor with half-finished business. The only person that will look bad is you, so tie up any loose ends, pay those suppliers, get the accounts up to date and finish that appraisal for the trainee sommelier.
Even better, create a handover document with details of where things are kept, notes on important guests, computer passwords, any quirks about a supplier and notes to help in forthcoming meetings. They will also need important contact phone numbers and email addresses.
*Top tip*
Once you've left, never criticise your old company or disclose secrets. Not only could it backfire, but your new employer will doubt your powers of discretion and integrity.
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